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Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Sometimes i wonder...why people hate one another just by simply looking at the face of the person? is outlook apperance more important than the heart of the person? Why people have to make fun of them? Just like i watched the tv series of an ordinary girl has a fashion sense of mind but the outlook is totally different. The people would say something about her and make fun of her. Even some people put up a mask and say for the sake to make the person happy and say something else behind the person's back. But when the day the person went for a total make over.... just to prove these people wrong by saying meanful things, people automatically changes and want to be really good friends. Isnt it strange? How people changes...
I have noticed about how people react towards one another when there are two people talking together, they wont mind calling out another person than the first person cos probably he/she is not very sociable like many others. To me, i know myself very well even if people make comments about me. Not many people really know me very well except for very few ones. Unfortunately, majority do not make an effort to recognise me rather than saying that im serious,boring or flustered...are u sure? sometimes wherever we goes like if we are in the party with all our friends, everybody will be in a happy mood. If nobody talks to u, u will probably be switched off or look for someone to talk to.
Even if someone who is kiasu always score very well in exams only approach to people of their standard do not even bother asking another person who is about above average level ...just because the person does not score very well? I remembered my teacher used to say this to my class long ago, if you succeed and score well, people will come to u and be good friends with u. If u are a failure and did not score well, everybody will turn away from u. U will be left in the dark side. No one will save u except u can only help urself. Well, i have yet to see if its true. At first i didnt want to believe what this teacher said...feels like very negative. but i dunno why i felt like this is life and i have to face the fact if this is going to happen to me. Only way, is to find a way out and overcome obstacles.
I really hate people who keep saying "Be determine" when a person face a really tough challenge. U know why? coz its easy to say the word to the person but to be in the person's shoe, u wont say that. I find that it is so irritating whenever a person faces problems, the only reply or medicine to cure the person is "Be determine". sometimes i feel like punching the person if he/she say that again. is this the best way to talk to the person? i hope u understand what i mean...
Sometimes i feel whether are people sincere in terms of friendship? Some people keep their distance as time flies or when they meet new people they dump off their old friends. I will just pray that none of these will not happen and the world should live happily just like in heaven. But for me, my close friends are my darlings! despite of the age difference, they make me feel like we are united. Hope this will go on and on and never be separated!
Sometimes despite of the difficult times, u may encounter funny people around you. Like when i was sad and alone, i saw a group of girls trying to physically self praise their beauty as though they are fighting for the crown - beauty contest? yah rite! I felt like laughing like they have nothing better to do. never know what are the major changes would occur in the next ten years...no one knows even ourselves...
Eileen, if u are reading my blog, emm...probably u would snore and sleep half way reading my blog...lol coz u say i write too long as though its a life story. hey i break into paragraphs lah! not in one whole junk...sure people either go blind or just dont bother reading...lol anyway, time to go to sleep...zzzzz.....
